Podcast: Bad Ways Churches Respond to Those Fallen into Sin

   TOP TIPS FOR SEXUAL PURITY – BONUS EPISODE ( 10:41 ) Click here to download or listen to the show   Jeff created a podcast 6 months ago called Top Tips For Sexual Purity.  He releases two episodes a week and shares some of the best things he’s been learning from group, counselors, books, podcastsContinue reading “Podcast: Bad Ways Churches Respond to Those Fallen into Sin”

6 Types of Erosion the Sexual Addict Can't See

We have moved to porntopurity.com. Our sexual sin affects many things we cannot see, yet. Erosion brings a hidden, slow devestation.  Erosion to soil can cause a house to sink into the ground.  Erosion of the nuts and bolts in your car cause parts to go bad.  Beach erosion causes houses and lighthouses to haveContinue reading “6 Types of Erosion the Sexual Addict Can't See”

6 Types of Erosion the Sexual Addict Can’t See

Our sexual sin affects many things we cannot see, yet. Erosion brings a hidden, slow devestation.  Erosion to soil can cause a house to sink into the ground.  Erosion of the nuts and bolts in your car cause parts to go bad.  Beach erosion causes houses and lighthouses to have to be moved.  When weContinue reading “6 Types of Erosion the Sexual Addict Can’t See”

How Bad Do You Want to Heal From Your Addiction?

When your world falls apart and you are confronted with your sexual sin, you have to decide:  “How serious am I about getting well?”  This is not a one-time decision, but a series of decisions.  You can decide if you want to take no action, or radical action.  Here’s a list of some recovery strategiesContinue reading “How Bad Do You Want to Heal From Your Addiction?”

Marsha Reviews "No More Headaches" by Dr. Judi Slattery

We have moved to porntopurity.com. I am so thankful for the marriage recovery resources I’ve been given and stumbled across over the last two years.   The Lord has used several books written by Christian authors to help me better grasp what God intends for my marriage and how to find forgiveness and healing from theContinue reading “Marsha Reviews "No More Headaches" by Dr. Judi Slattery”

Marsha Reviews “No More Headaches” by Dr. Judi Slattery

I am so thankful for the marriage recovery resources I’ve been given and stumbled across over the last two years.   The Lord has used several books written by Christian authors to help me better grasp what God intends for my marriage and how to find forgiveness and healing from the wounds we’ve both inflicted andContinue reading “Marsha Reviews “No More Headaches” by Dr. Judi Slattery”

Should I Get a Divorce?

If the d-word is going through your mind, or getting thrown around in conversations, take a look at this series of articles that were posted recently on Focus on the Family.  Divorce is such a devastating thing for families.  We can be so deceived in thinking that it is an escape and the “easy way”Continue reading “Should I Get a Divorce?”

Tiger Woods Apology: The Good, and Things He Should Have Said

The press was buzzing today with Tiger Woods and his apology.  He is not coming back to golf yet.  He is going back for more therapy.  He had a very lengthy and comprehensive apology.   Video of Tiger’s apology Transcript of Tiger’s apology My wife and I have been in our own sexual addiction recovery process.  MyContinue reading “Tiger Woods Apology: The Good, and Things He Should Have Said”

The Undercurrent: A Key to Healing and Recovery

A major breakthrough happened in recovery when I was sitting in a men’s support group, and people kept talking about “dealing with the stuff underneath”. They often asked what stresses a person was going through. The group leaders seemed to focus less on the outward behavior and more on the inward behavior.