Lie #1 – I Can't Believe a Lie (Marsha)

We have moved to porntopurity.com. This road through recovery has led to many amazing discoveries. The biggest surprise has been the discovery of a number of lies I had accepted as truth.    I believed my husband needed to earn my respect. I believe that 99% of the time I was right about 99% of

Lie #1 – I Can’t Believe a Lie (Marsha)

This road through recovery has led to many amazing discoveries. The biggest surprise has been the discovery of a number of lies I had accepted as truth.    I believed my husband needed to earn my respect. I believe that 99% of the time I was right about 99% of everything. I believed my best

Lessons From a You-Tube Slip Up

A slip up on You Tube the other day reminded me of how careful I have to be when searching online.

Healing and Strength From Psalm 86

Here are some great passages from Psalm 86 to encourage you today.

Staying Pure on Facebook

Facebook – so, how are you doing with staying pure on it? QUESTIONABLE SCENARIOS Every once in a while I have somebody I used to know throw me a snowball, give me a gift, poke me, or play want to play some stupid game with me. Some people can even throw you a kiss and

Why Do We Share Our Story Publically?

We wanted to share why we have decided to be public with our story about the pornography that affected our marriage.

How to Work on Your Fantasy Life – Part 2

Yesterday, we offered 7 tips to help you deal with your fantasy life, today we offer 7 more things that have been very helpful for Jeff and for many others.

How to Work on Your Fantasy Life – Part 1

So many guys and gals deal with sexual fantasy. Today and tomorrow we want to share 14 tips to help you deal with your fantasy life.

How to Deal With Fetishes

The word “fetish” comes loaded, doesn’t it?  Yet there are many guys and girls that deal struggle with them in their sexual recovery.  WHAT IS A FETISH? A fetish develops when something tangible becomes sexualized and is used for arousal and sexual purposes.  Fetishes can develop around objects, routines, body parts, articles of clothing, certain types of

I Confess… (Marsha)

In the past, I’ve been overly critical of my Catholic friends who attend confession. I had solid biblical evidence that confession to a priest was unnecessary, as there was “but one mediator between God and man, and that was Christ.” I argued that the practice of confession discouraged believers from interacting directly with God themselves.